Voices of Participants
I have participated in a number of family constellations, facilitated by various people, including by Hellinger himself, who has developed this work. It is work that substantially interferes and can bring about huge shifts in your life, if you enter it open and unprejudiced. My experience is that this works only if you feel safe.
I have very good experience in this regard with Franz Kalab. I experience him as pure, honest, sensitive, intuitive, modest and careful. His groups are not so big, which is also nice. Therefore I want to make you aware of the possibilities he offers for the coming period, to work with him.
With a warm greeting from
Els Kikke, therapist, Amsterdam
I realized that I got a particular inheritance that was not my own, but of my mother and her mother. I went through the same pattern in relation to my own mother, as she did with her mother. In addition, the set-up helped me to see the relationship between my sister and myself differently. I have realized that she needs me as much as I need her and that the relationship already exists, even without me working hard for it.
These insights felt very complete and liberating. I have experienced the whole as a ‘festival for myself’ and I am now more open than ever to arrange my life as I want it, without ballast of others.
I want to thank you again for that session, which I have done with you. It made so much difference. It started already when I walked back along the canals to the station. It was as if a burden had fallen from me. My family at home also responded very enthusiastically and noticed a change. Like you said, there was still a lot of to think about. I also visited my father in Latin America again. He is a psychiatrist and he also found it very meaningful. All in all, I owe you a lot. Could you also help me as I want to quit smoking? I understand that you're not a guru, but I thought one can always ask.